Choosing Joy

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Rejoice always.
{1 Thessalonians 5:16}

I love the simplicity of this verse. Rejoice. Always. It really is that simple. But honestly…some days I really don’t feel like rejoicing. I don’t always feel joy. Day to day God blesses me in so many ways and I love what he is doing in my marriage, in my church, in my community. But I ache for more.  And right now the mundane day-to-day gets in the way of that right now and honestly I’m just kind of irritated about it! So I dig my feet in and get all stubborn acting and refuse to accept that God really wants me to find joy where I am at. But y’all..when we close our eyes to where God has us, we miss it. We miss our calling. Because he’s called us where he has us for today. And today we can love others well. We can encourage. We can hope. We can choose joy.

We’ve talked a lot about joy and being obedient where God has us recently. My husband said the other day – “you know how we heard several times before we were married that love isn’t always a feeling, it’s a decision? I think that’s true for joy too.”

Indeed. Joy isn’t always something to be felt. It’s a decision we make because we know where our hope is found.  Continue reading “Choosing Joy”

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Our Purpose and Privilege in Marriage

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Marriage is such a sweet reminder of and the closest example we have to how Christ loves his bride – the church. This creates a beautiful purpose in marriage, and it is a unique privilege we have as married couples to honor and love our spouses, and to learn and experience Christ’s love for us.  Ultimately, it isn’t about us or our spouse – it’s about Christ.

I am by no means a pro at this married-life thing!  But God has certainly softened my heart and changed my perspective on marriage in the past 3 1/2 years. As I have grown into my role as “wife” God has very clearly shown me that this isn’t about me or about my husband. It’s about his love for us and his love for his bride, the church.

God has purpose for us as husbands and wives. And it is a privilege to be called to walk alongside our spouse in the messiness and brokenness of life and together see the beauty that comes from pursuing Christ wholeheartedly.

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